A Story to Live by

There was a blind girl who hated herself because she was blind. She 

hated everyone, except her loving boyfriend. He was always 

there for her. She told her boyfriend, 'If I could only see 

the world, I will marry you.'

 

One day, 

someone donated a pair of eyes to her. When the bandages 

came off, she was able to see everything, including her 

boyfriend.

  

He asked 

her,'Now that you can see the world, will you marry me?' The 

girl looked at her boyfriend and saw that he was blind. The 

sight of his closed eyelids shocked her. She hadn't expected 

that. The thought of looking at them the rest of her life 

led her to refuse to marry him.

 

Her 

boyfriend left in tears and days later wrote a note to her 

saying: 'Take good care of your eyes, my dear, for before 

they were yours, they were mine.'

 

This is 

how the human brain often works when our status changes. 

Only a very few remember what life was like before, and who 

was always by their side in the most painful situations.

  

Life Is a 

Gift

  

Today 

before you say an unkind word - Think of someone who can't 

speak.

  

Before 

you complain about the taste of your food - Think of someone 

who has nothing to eat.

  

Before 

you complain about your husband or wife - Think of someone 

who's crying out to GOD for a companion.

  

Today 

before you complain about life - Think of someone who died 

too early on this earth.

  

Before 

you complain about your children - Think of someone who 

desires children but they're barren.

    

Before 

you argue about your dirty house someone didn't clean or 

sweep - Think of the people who are living in the streets.

  

Before 

whining about the distance you drive Think of someone who 

walks the same distance with their feet.

 

And when 

you are tired and complain about your job - Think of the 

unemployed, the disabled, and those who wish they had your 

job.

    

But 

before you think of pointing the finger or condemning 

another - Remember that not one of us is without sin.

    

And when 

depressing thoughts seem to get you down - Put a smile on 

your face and think: you're alive and still 

around.

  

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Boxing

Although it was just a game but I enjoyed boxing very much. The sensor is not that sensitive, or I don't really know how to swing my arm towards my opponent. K.O. the opponent yesterday, but got knocked off today, what a shame!

I lost, and it was a painful experince. (maybe I took it seriously) However, it was a great experience, you can swing your arm towards someone, which is obviously just a video game character, but you can swing as hard as you can. Syok~nya! can release tension and the stress which building up wihout your notice.

I punched, I hooked, but I don't know how to defend myself. Funny...no wonder got beaten up! I was tired, I was sweating, but I am happy. Feels good!

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朋友一聚

昨晚，听了很多鼓励的话，想要唤醒那颗不知不觉已沉睡的心，我看到一个朋友很努力地在扮演他的角色。我发现，“比较”会永远跟随着我，是跟随着花朵的蝴蝶吗？还是身后挥之不去的黑影？

很不喜欢，或者说非常讨厌做那些选择，我不会开心，我相信谁看见我的那个衰样也会觉得一样。她提起了一件事情，为什么我就是会一直徘徊在这种困难的抉择中？

老实说，我不知道！可能是前世债，今生还。

谢谢你还能接受我这个朋友。感恩！希望一切顺顺利利！

还有人说，当你不再感到疼痛，你已经停止长大了。很好的语句！--最怕是已经麻木了！

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You doubt? I doubt!

When you see a few coincidents happened continuosly, you will doubt it. I doubt it, too. I am seeing it again but I am not going to do anything. I don't know what will I hear tomorrow but I know something happened for some reasons, or at least a reason. 

Perhaps, I need to keep myself off the electronic world, the real world, and live in my own world. Starting to love the books.

Missing the laughters, and cute smiley face of the little angels too. It takes away the things.

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心理测验(1)

美國一個非常有名氣的心理測驗~~準喔！ 

 

Ｌ小姐和Ｍ先生是一對戀人，

兩人隔河而居，

那條河不寬，也不闊。

  

有一天，Ｍ先生得了急病，Ｌ小姐知道了

心急如焚，但是那一天出現了暴風雨， 

河水暴漲，風急雨勁，Ｍ先生叫她不要去探望他，

 可Ｌ小姐還是要不顧一切去看看他。

  

於是她去找Ｂ先生，因為Ｂ先生有一條船，

有能力送她過河。

可是，Ｂ先生卻要收過河費一百萬，

即使她向他解釋Ｍ先生的情況，

他也一樣不為所動。 

 

Ｌ小姐當然沒有那麼多錢，

於是她去找Ｓ先生，因Ｓ先生也有一條船。

  

豈料，Ｓ先生竟是無恥之徒

他要求Ｌ小姐獻上她的肉體，方才載她渡河。 

Ｌ小姐為了愛情，最後犧牲了自己…… 

最後，Ｓ先生也載了她過河。

    

Ｍ 先生的急病，最後也沒有惡化，是化險為夷了。

但當他知道Ｌ小姐居然 犧牲了自己的貞節， 

他很生氣，

因為他早已吩咐她不要來，何況還因此犧牲了肉體！

  

於是，Ｍ先生和Ｌ小姐就這樣分手了。 

Ｌ小姐很傷心， 

不久之後，他認識了年紀較大的Ｆ先生。

當他知悉了她的過 去後， 

不但不介意，還向她示愛。

  

雖然Ｌ小姐並不太愛Ｆ先生，也不太勉強 … …

  

好了，問題來了：

參考故事內容，然後從故事的五位人物   ， 

Ｌ小姐，Ｍ先生，Ｂ先生，Ｓ先生，Ｆ先生

 五位人物，按照你喜歡他們的程度，由好至壞排上一個等次。

例如 ( 1 ) ~L   ( 2 )~ F   ( 3 )~ B   ( 4 )~   M   ( 5 )~ S

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错误的因果

请问谁有想过为什么一个错误会发生吗？

• 因为自己不小心？
• 因为别人不小心？
• 因为自己和别人都不小心？
• 因为错误是无法避免的？
• 因为错误让人学会不要再犯错？
• 因为错误根本就是一个错误？
• 因为那是因果？

错误和失败一样吗？如果一样，我可以向爱迪生学习吗？

当我每犯下一错误，或者失败了很多次，我学爱迪生一样，

告诉自己说我已经找到很多不能成功的方法吗？请问我有都少次机会呢？

我猜那要看你有多乐观吧！

错误会让你失落，让你失去自信，让你备感压力，让你束手无策，让你惊慌失措，等等。

但是，我相信一件事情的发生一定会有一定的理由，

因为我相信因果。

要从错误中走出来不容易，但是当你再度站起来面对挑战，那是勇敢，

也是生命中的一种成长。

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错过

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去哪里的巴士？

很少发梦，或者说没有把梦记得很清楚，但是我发了个梦，而且记得很清楚。我看见一辆可以穿梭时空的巴士。司机问我想回到过去吗？因为很多人都不想长大，而想回到儿童时期，其实是想回到没有烦恼的时候，可以快快乐乐地生活。我觉得，回到过去也不错！

但是，现实的我想去看看未来，我想看未来的我到底会变成怎样？！

我又要上车了吗？

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PIG in 2009

豬 Pig born in: 1935(75), 1947(63), 1959(51), 1971(39), 1983(27),1995(15), 2007(3)

Overall Forecast

There are many unlucky stars this year. However, there is still hope as there are a few lucky stars that can lend you a hand. As such, people born in the year of pig is advise to be modest, humble, handle matter logically and try not to be too aggressive. Students will have no problem with study. 

Be mindful with your investment this year. Don’t invest too much. Be vigilance and never make any hasty moves or decisions.

Career

Career or business luck is considered normal with minor obstacle popping along the way. As long as you are modest, humble and handle the matter logically, you should be fine. Evaluate every

situation and do not attempt any huge investment. 

This year is not a good year to change job.

Relationship

You will feel vexed and stressed out this year with regards to relationship. There is constant conflict and argument this year. Be more tolerant, forgiving and understanding. Learn to give and take. It is not worth it fighting over trivial matters.

Wealth

You might lose wealth this year. Be conservative in your expenses. Remember to save up for rainy days. Do not gamble or speculate in share, you don’t have luck there. Your normal income is stable.

Health

Relationship luck is not good and as such, you will constantly burn out. This will affect your health. Take some time off to unwind and don’t sweat over small matters. Open up your mind. When outdoor, take extra precaution as you are prone to accident.

***Well, well, well. A few gentle reminder highlighted, looks like the pig is losing luck in the coming year. Read more books, talk to yourself more frequent, balance diet, healthy lifestyle, take care of yourself. It is not a good year, but let's not make it a bad year!

Learn to cruise and ride the waves!

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不可能的任务-完成篇

完成了不可能的任务，我只能说：

• I am not fit!
• jkllj - ji kei luo lei jin!
• 很痛！膝盖很痛，脚板很痛，肌肉很痛，身体各部位都很痛！

为什么呢？

• 没有准备，没有练习！
• 可能带太多东西了吧！好重！钱包，手机，面包，车匙，livita等！
• 没有热身！因为一到就开始了！
• 信心太爆棚了吧？！
• 姿势不对？

太累了！好想好好练习，明年再来？

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不可能的任务

昨天，和同事们吃午餐，谈起了槟威大桥的马拉松。CS Tan一直以为半马拉松就是在桥中央转回来，其实是在收费站那儿才绕道回来。他发现了才开始怀疑自己是否能够完成那“不可能的任务”。我在一旁解说给他听，说着说着，自己也开始怀疑自己当初报名的冲动。

我们在想，25km的跑程简直是疯狂，竟然还有人参加马拉松。晕！我们在激励自己，用各种各样的方法来让自己“不知不觉”地到达终点。有人说要结伴跑，那当然是最好啦，可以速度要一致才行。呵呵，还可以说八卦和是非！我说要不然把25km分割成25个小目标，那该比较能接受！完成后可以自我赏赐，刷拼啦，大吃大喝也可以，哈哈，想到就爽！

越说就越离谱，例如比赛向一百个女参赛者要电话啦！比赛在身上签名啦，不够地方的话，还可以拨开身上的三层肉啦！接着就说，衣服湿了很重啦，要不然光着上身赛跑，还可以用米奇老鼠的乳贴啦！笑翻了！原来，大家的工作压力都蛮大的……

脚踝还没完全康复，希望自己可以成功啦！

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昏迷不醒

工作量不停地增加，写不完的工作清单，一波还未平息，一波又来侵袭，好累……

当我睁开双眼时，我又睡在沙发上，还没洗澡，原来我又再度昏睡过去了。是身体太累了，还是心理太累了？

我须要休息。

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小狗的存在

“你没有看见小狗，并不代表小狗不存在！”

好一个简单既有趣的道理，当然这是当时“首相”的名句。直到今天，它引用的“小狗”依然让我印象深刻。很多事情，我们没亲眼看见，但是并不代表有些事情是不存在的。有些事情正在发生了，只是我们没用心地去观察。

有人说，你不要去把别人的小狗搬到自己的故事来。我只能说，我看到“小狗”好几次了，只是我把它赶走了。

承认“小狗”的存在并不困难，但要知道“小狗”给我们带来什么意义。怕狗的，就离“小狗”远一点呀！

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会说话的花

小时候，我们很喜欢画画，或者涂鸦，就算画得一点都不好看，但是我们总是会尝试用颜色笔把脑海里的画面画出来。我们的想象力随着年龄慢慢地消失了，我们的勇气随着岁月慢慢减少了，我们变得十分在意别人对自己的看法，这是好事吗？

随着回归童年的主题，我很想找回开心的感觉，第一样想到的就是一朵花，一朵可以让我开心的花。借了一支眼线笔画了一朵花在自己的手上。虽然它并不像我想象中的那样鲜艳夺目，还有一点丑丑的，但这让它变成一朵会说话的话。那朵花说出了我的想法，我的情绪，我的烦恼。

好想心里永远开着一朵不会凋谢的花。

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Children's Wonderland

那是我公司Enginnering Night的主题，虽然听起来有点幼稚，那是我觉得那就是很多人都需要的，同年，还有童心。那天我们必须穿上三种颜色的衣服，或者有卡通在衣服上。还要戴上面具跳飞机人头，过关才可以进入。有个大粒豆说那些不回的人可能没有童年回忆的，不过只是开玩笑的说说而已。

那晚的节目，还有好像小学生第一天到学校报到一样。由“家长”带着小孩，还要自我介绍呢！过后还有玩大风吹，helicopter乱乱转，飞镖，猜卡通人物等游戏，把大家都带回童年时代了。我相信除了那一夜，我们在公司是没有机会玩得那么疯，那么癫！

虽然我是临时被委托作camera man，真的好累！好料也吃不够，太可惜了！

由于压力，刚好同事朋友约到夜店去“直落”，既然全部人都去，我当然也跟去啦！很久没有听到震耳欲聋的音乐，五颜六色的disco light，好多的alcohol，好怀念的气氛，虽然二手烟的问题是不能避免的啦！随着音乐摇摆，如果现在还不“有限制”地放纵，何时呢？我快爆了！

还有很多插曲在随着那些吵杂的音乐不断地延伸，好烦！我不是想借酒消愁，只是我不懂。我是真的越来越不明白我自己还是我越来越认识自己呢……

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压力的来源呢？

压力来自四方，来自自己对自己的要求，别人对自己的要求，将来对自己的要求，现实对自己的要求。我的体内的肌肉好像被拉到极度的紧绷，好像一不小心，再施加一点点压力就会断气的感觉。走起路来好像铁金刚，连钢铁人的柔软度都比我好。

今天，又有不一样的感觉，觉得自己又行尸走肉般地过着生活。上班，下班。吃饭，排泄。感情，纠纷。现实，低头。梦想，遥远。一日复一日，重复着。

思绪好像乱成一团的绒线，需要时间一一解开。

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Axe is ready!

Looks like there will be a lay-off in my company in the near future, the management try to convince the people that they will try their best to minimize the scale. It is not very surprising, the lay-off is just like a epidemic, spreading from a company to company, region to region in a pace that you cannot really quantify. This is a global issue, not a single entity that can spare from this global credit crisis.

The management mentioned something which is very true, "it is out of our control". It sounds familiar because I used to think that everything can be controlled if you want to. Eventually, I found that it is just impossible. What can I do is control what I can control, like how much effort I want to put into one project. But, even that you spent 36 hours a day to do your work does not mean that you are safe from the axe.

The axe is always there. It is ever ready. Therefore, it is a waste of effort and time if you trying to figure out whether you will be the 'lucky' one, just do your job and enjoy the moment you have.

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blue angel

Once in a blue moon, the world becomes blue. The angel is blue too.

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