男人成熟的20种表现？

1。以事业为重。

2。脚踏实地，明白物质也是爱情的基础之一。

3。当心爱的女人和别的男人在一起时，衷心祝福。

4。不对爱情充满太多幻想。

5。着装得体，精神饱满。

6。善于发现女人的优点长处，并赞美对方。

7。有女人缘，但善于把握寸度。

8。信守承诺，没有把握不会轻易许诺。

9。说话干净利落，不婆婆妈妈。

10。有绅士风度，细心且幽默。

11。不向女人要太多为什么。

12。懂得做女人的忠实听众。

13。相信所爱的女人是个谜。

14。明白女人是最爱撒谎的动物。

15。明白女人心是世上最不稳定和难以捉摸的东西。

16。察言观色，后发制人。

17。不会为失恋丢掉人生目标。

18。会记住父母妻子和孩子的生日，并给他们带个礼物。

19。重视事件的结果，而不把过程看得很重。

20。学会对自己的爱人说“真实的谎言”。

发现自己不是很成熟，因为我很多时候说话婆婆妈妈，往往想避免的冲突，到最后只是换个形式发而已，真的好好地学习说话的技巧。还有我常常在意太多为什么，可能是工作所带来的理性后遗症吧，慢慢才明白一件事情的发生可以没有任何理由，也可以有好几个原因，我不该想太多！我还在学习别太保护自己，可能觉得自己太容易受伤了，所以往往先发制于人。Traumatic response！

重视事件的结果，而不把过程看得很重很难，因为人生活最重要的是包括过程，不是结果而已。

最后一条是看每个人对它的定义而异，只能说自己好好保重！

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Blog Renovation

Spending some time to renovate my blog and it is not as easy as I thought. Although some of the functions cannot work, most probably because I don't know much about html. However, I am happy that I am be able to get the slide show done!

YES!!!!

For those who are interested to try this template, please click here >>> Falkner Press

Main Features:

* Automatic Thumbnails on posts
* Automatic Post Summarize
* Featured Content Slider
* Adsense ready
* PSD Custom Logo Included
* Youtube Video embedding Integrated
* Fully SEO Optimized
* Advertisement Block Ready
* 3 Columns
* Social Bookmarking Icons
* Twitter Updates widget
* Feedburner Email Subscription ready
* Thumbnails on Recent Posts in Sidebar
* Integrated Search box
* Beautiful top Navigation bar
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Red Devils Home Jersey

yeah yeah... I have got the Manchester United 2009-2010 Home shirt/jersey, it is a gift from my brother. I must pick a Man Utd match day to wear it already after watching the thrilling 4-3 derby victory against Manchester City.

woosh... devilish red shirt. Well done, red devils.

又上班了

刚从 Gem Island 回来，和女友在那私人岛过了开斋节，享受到温暖的阳光，美丽的沙滩，还后很多很美丽的珊瑚，只可惜没有很多浮潜的机会。

回来后，发现自己的体重又上升了，每天吃好料，刚巧遇上开斋节，吃了 rendang， ketupat，沙爹，BBQ大餐等。Genting Trailblazer 就只剩下一个月罢了，是时候好好锻炼了。皮肤也变黑了，但是我喜欢这个 tone，喜欢阳光，沙滩和比基尼就是得牺牲的啦……哈！

还在解决一些工作上的难题，希望可以更加好地管理时间，好让各方面都可以平衡发展。加油！

Dear，it was a nice trip！Next time must take flight already :p

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Indonesian DL is coming

I was sitting in the car on my way back from the vendor site audit. A question was asked about the company volume and head count to support the manufacturing operation. 3 managers there and 1 engineer, so it would be a great idea to just listen and don't talk. I heard that many Indonesian operators will be hired, separated into 3 groups. The earliest to hit the factory production floor would be in December 2009.

Indonesian operators, maids, or whatever related to Indonesia work force was/is a hot topic between Malaysia and Indonesia now. A story was told by a QA manager that once an auditor caught an Indonesian DL (direct labour) with make up in the cleanroom, and to escape herself from any disiplinary action, she offered herself to the auditor. The manager is not sure that whether the immoral trade between them got through or not, but it tells me that is just a small fraction of the whole picture.

They come here as a foreigner, they earn around RM600 for 15 shift working days per month. They have to repay the agent fees that help them to get into Malaysia, RM200 gone! They have to send some money home to support their family, potentially RM200 gone. The balance is RM200 or slightly more, what can they do with that amount of money? Can they make a living with that?

They might need to do something against their will or they have to do something else to survive. I heard that they can easily earn RM100 by providing 'service' in karaoke, not sexual service though, but I guess that is not something that you and I will be proud of. I am sad to hear this and I pity them. I hope they will get better, and as a Malaysia, I hope we don't try to take any advantage on them. Treatly them with respect, and hopefully this thing will get better.

Amitabha.

Sometimes When We Touch - Dan Hill & Rique Franks

'Prawn Aliens @D9' & 'disGRACE'

Ohh... first, I though here comes another alien movie, expecting something new. In fact, there is something new or freash, I did not see aliens, but a lot of prawns out there. OMG... since when that aliens become the victim of human being on the earth? I never saw not so good looking alien so tame... cannot imagine.

The whole point of the movie is hovering around the human who is transforming to the 'prawn' after some 'fuel' spilled on his face. It is more like a documentary show of the 'human alien', rather than talking about the aliens. I like the spacecraft, the weapon, the machine and the ending only. The others are quite disappointing.

Maybe I was expecting an fiction plus action movie, but I felt like watching an documentary show. Sigh... but it is good that some people still can sense the humanity in aliens. Nowadays, not many humans behave like humans anymore.

This is another movie that I scanned through, because I was too sleepy with the slow story line. I was so eager to see the 'blood' scene, but it was not really a lot about that one until near the end of the story.

I cannot imagine that what is the unconditional love from a mother that feeding her baby with blood, just because the baby needs it. How long does a mother take to realize that a baby is sucking milk or blood from her nipples? Sucking and biting make a difference, so I guess it comes back the undying love from a mother.

The ending is very disgusting! A mother covering with blood and a teething baby. arhh...

I do not recommend this movie to ladies because you might have phobia carrying a baby in the future.

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